Think about this for a moment. How comfortable are you when someone is in your “bubble?” You know, that invisible space around you that you consider your own. Some people consider their space needs wider than others, depending on comfort level.
When I traveled to Europe in college, I quickly realized even when talking to people that the culture plays a part in the “respected space.” Americas, well we we require more and Europeans don’t seem to. I typically stand about 3 feet from someone when I talk to a friend or in a professional setting, sometimes a little more space than that. When my kids though, they are welcome in my bubble space, hugs and kisses are always welcome from my little boys.
Why would dogs be much different? We both have a “private space rule.” If you were unaware of this let me inform you now. If you have children, this is a great thing to teach them as well!
Rule Number 1:
Dogs that don’t know you don’t want hugs and kisses. Seriously, you just met; at least buy him lunch😉
Rule Number 2:
If you are walking close to an unknown dog then do a slight arc. What?! As humans we are lateral. Just take a glance at our sidewalks. In the dog world, walking directly toward another dog in a direct line is a threat. So as you are walking toward or past another dog, slightly arc around him.
Rule Number 3:
When I meet a new dog, I don’t pet, talk to, or touch. I usually stand and talk to the owner, ignoring the dog. I allow him to sniff me. So, let him move to you. Let him sniff you. And don’t look him in the eyes (no long romantic gaze needed!), just ignore him until he looks more comfortable and relaxed.
There you have it. The simple space rules with dogs. What has been your experience?! Share it with us in comments below!